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Notice · Document RP-0001 · Resolution of an outstanding matter
Hi John —
I have decided that we cannot continue this friendship. That decision is final.
Past confrontations between us have ended in ways I am not willing to risk repeating. That is why this is happening in writing, through a portal — not in person, not on the phone. That is not negotiable.
This is not about one incident. The decision is the cumulative weight of patterns over time — most consistently, dismissal of what I share with you and the way conflict between us escalates. I have adapted how I communicate with you repeatedly. That adaptation has reached its limit.
Before contact ends, one practical matter must be resolved.
§ 01The intimate content
On January 17, 2026, you posted intimate content of us to two public platforms without my prior consent:
Your iMessage to me hours later — "Would you have preferred I ask? Sorry. I feel like it upset you cause you went silent" — confirms that consent was not obtained beforehand. I did not consent to public distribution. Any that may have appeared from my attempts to preserve the friendship is withdrawn.
Three laws apply here:
— federal civil cause of action; statutory damages up to $150,000 per violation plus attorney's fees
— misdemeanor; up to 2 years and/or $5,000 fine
— first-degree publication misdemeanor; up to 3 years and substantial fines
The same point applies under all three: agreeing to make intimate content is not the same as agreeing to share it publicly. Consent given under pressure does not count.
§ 02Your two options
You have seven calendar days from receipt of this letter to select one of the following.
Option One
Take Down and Delete
Within seven days:
Take down both public posts so they are no longer publicly accessible:
Permanently delete every copy of the intimate content from every device, cloud account, backup, and external storage location you own or hold.
Submit a Verification Log via the portal listing every location where content was deleted, with file hashes where available, and screenshots of the now-removed posts.
Sign a declaration under — under penalty of perjury — that both posts have been removed, all copies are deleted, no copies are retained, and none will be created or distributed.
Begin when you're ready. Each step saves automatically.
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Take down the X post
Open the post, tap ···, choose Delete post. Take a screenshot showing the deletion confirmation or the now-404 status page.
Fill in every location where the intimate content existed, then upload your deletion screenshots.
Phase 2 wires this to encrypted R2 storage with sha-256 hashing.
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Sign the declaration
I declare under penalty of perjury under the laws of the United States of America () that the foregoing is true and correct: both public posts have been removed, all copies of the intimate content have been permanently deleted from every device, cloud account, backup, and external storage location in my possession or control, no copies are retained, and no copies will be created, retained, or distributed in the future.
By typing your full legal name above, you adopt this as your electronic signature, equivalent to a handwritten signature under the federal E-SIGN Act.
Phase 2: signature receipt is sha-256 hashed, generated as a PDF, and emailed to both parties via Resend.
Option Two
Take Down and Covenant
Within seven days:
Take down both public posts so they are no longer publicly accessible:
Sign a declaration under that you will not distribute, publish, share, sell, or transmit any such content to any third party, on any platform, at any time, in any form.
If you select Option Two and later distribute the content, that distribution violates (up to $150,000 plus fees), (up to 2 years), and the DC NCP Act (up to 3 years). I will pursue civil action and file reports with the appropriate authorities.
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I declare under penalty of perjury under the laws of the United States of America () that the foregoing is true and correct: both public posts have been removed, and I covenant that I will not distribute, publish, share, sell, or transmit any such content to any third party, on any platform, at any time, in any form.
By typing your full legal name above, you adopt this as your electronic signature, equivalent to a handwritten signature under the federal E-SIGN Act.
Phase 2: signature receipt is sha-256 hashed, generated as a PDF, and emailed to both parties via Resend.
Both declarations are legally binding under the federal when signed via typed full legal name through the portal.
If neither option is selected within seven days, the matter advances automatically: pre-filed StopNCII.org reports for both posts will be submitted, civil action will be initiated under , and reports will be filed under the applicable Maryland and District of Columbia statutes. No further notice will be provided.
§ 03Contact
The portal is the only correspondence channel between us going forward. Login credentials are issued separately. No method of communication outside the portal is permitted, including but not limited to:
Telephone calls
Text messages from any number
Messages on any social platform, including but not limited to X, Bluesky, Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, TikTok, Reddit, Discord, Telegram, WhatsApp, Signal, Sniffies, Grindr, Scruff, or any other platform
Email or postal mail to any address
Messages relayed through mutual contacts
Accounts created to monitor my online presence
Any other method of communication, contact, or surveillance not listed above
You have previously created accounts to monitor an ex-partner during a period when contact was prohibited. That is on record. Any repetition will be addressed under (harassment, up to 180 days) and (threats / harassment, up to 180 days), without further notice.
§ 04Public encounters
If our paths cross in public, I will acknowledge you with a nod and continue on my way. I expect the same — distance maintained, no approach, no engagement. Given your prior experience maintaining distance from your ex, the same expectation applies here.
§ 05Monitoring and pre-filed reports
Pre-filed StopNCII.org reports for both posts are prepared. The submission adds the digital fingerprints (perceptual hashes) of this content to the cross-platform takedown systems used by Meta, TikTok, Bumble, OnlyFans, Reddit, and other participating platforms. Once submitted, this is irreversible. See §02 for when submission is triggered.
As you know, I have cameras around my apartment, inside and out. With facial recognition enabled, they will notify me if you are seen in or around my home. I have a secured local copy of the intimate content. Its digital fingerprint is recorded frame by frame, with a tamper-proof chain of custody. A continuous monitoring system is in place. It detects any reappearance of the content across the public internet, including via burner accounts, cropped re-uploads, watermarked re-uploads, or re-encoded copies.
If you appear at my residence or attempt contact outside the portal, a police report will be filed under each of the following:
Harassment — and
Stalking — (up to 5 years) and (up to 12 months general; up to 5 years aggravated)
Trespass — (up to 90 days) and (unlawful entry, up to 180 days)
If any of the content appears anywhere online, civil action under and criminal reporting under the applicable state statutes will follow without further notice.
§ 06Closure
Once your choice is executed and verified, this concludes our communication. You will receive no further contact from me.
— Michael
Document status
RECORD
✓Notice issuedMay 5, 2026
✓Recipient first access—
☐Option selected—
☐Verification Log submitted— Option One only
☐§1746 declaration signed—
☐Portal complete—
PENDING — automatic at deadline (—)
☐StopNCII.org reports submitted to participating platforms
☐Civil action initiated under 15 U.S.C. § 6851
☐Criminal reports filed (MD § 3-809, DC NCP Act)
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